Tom Ryder Weddings

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Wedding singer at Ware Priory, Hertfordshire

Jack and Michelle's wedding started at Ware Priory and then got on a boat, which makes it the most unusual booking I have taken as a wedding singer in Hertfordshire. The ceremony was at the priory, and the afternoon reception was three hours on the water heading for Stanstead Abbots.

The set list

What I played at Ware Priory

Every one of these is from my write-up of the day itself, for Jack and Michelle. Your day would be built from your own choices on the planning call.

  • The Only Exception by Paramore, instrumental

    Michelle's walk down the aisle

  • Hotel California by The Eagles, instrumental

    the couple's exit

  • Craig David

    on the boat

  • Hey Ya by Outkast

    on the boat

  • Mr Brightside

    on the boat

  • Thinking Out Loud by Ed Sheeran

    first dance

When I played there

Jack and Michelle, May 2018

On a sweltering day in May I played Jack and Michelle's ceremony at Ware Priory, then the afternoon reception on the boat, including their first dance.

Around 50 friends and family came along for the trip. The professional team at Lee and Stort Boats greeted the wedding party, ran the bar and made sure the whole thing went smoothly.

Tom Ryder playing guitar at Jack and Michelle's wedding at Ware Priory in Hertfordshire
Jack & Michelle · Ware Priory · May 2018

The rooms

The rooms, and what they do to sound

The ceremony was in the priory's ceremony room, and the couple were showered with confetti as they came out of it. Michelle had asked for instrumental pieces to walk in and out to, so my job in that room was two guitar arrangements rather than anything sung.

Then the venue stopped being a building. I moved my equipment onto the tug boat and set up before guests started to embark, which is a very different problem from wheeling a PA across a car park: everything has to be secured, positioned once and left there, because there is nowhere to move to for the next three hours.

The trip lasted roughly three hours and I played two extended sets during it. Speeches happened onboard, after a safety briefing before departure. We docked again at Ware Priory, and the couple and their guests moved on to The Saracens Head in Ware as their evening guests arrived.

How the day ran

What Jack and Michelle booked

It was quite a young group, so the boat sets leaned on my more contemporary covers. Mapped onto the parts I sell, Jack and Michelle booked the ceremony, the afternoon reception and the first dance.

The practical bits

Access, power and getting set up

A wedding on the water means the PA has to be carried on, set up before anyone boards, and stay put. There is no second trip to the van. I will call your coordinator, ask about access, power and any sound limiter, so a day like this is planned rather than improvised.

The full write-up from the day: Jack and Michelle's day at Ware Priory.

For coordinators

  • One musician, one guitar, one mic stand, one PA. Footprint about 2m by 1m.
  • Sets up in twenty minutes, packs down in twenty.
  • Battery-powered PA available where there is no power.
  • Public liability insurance, certificate sent to the venue on request.
  • I will ring you the week before to sort out access, power and any sound limiter.
  • I will always have a plan for the weather changing its mind.

Proof

What couples say

5.053 Google reviews, and 5.0 from 10 on Hitched

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Wide view of a wedding marquee with pink and blue flowers in the foreground

Availability

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